THE ADVERTISING WHICH KNOCKED MY HEART.. (1)

I have to admit that I forgot about the product which made such advertising..
But the point is, the advertising on the TV told us about ‘possessive girl’. On the scene, it was situated that a man was avoiding the phone call from his girl. It has been described that the girl was phoning him over and over again (obviously, more than 1 times in a one day), and the man was so furious, until he made a record of his voice in an answering machine, "Sleep, at my house, alone.." To be easily visualized, here is the scene of the conversation by phone:

1st Scene
The girl:
(while dying her hair after taken a bath) "Honey, what are you doing, and who are you with now?"
The man:
(answering machine, but seems that the girl didn’t know that it was an answering machine.. yeah, it was silly, but hey, it’s an advertising.. you will not be punished for being silly all the time) "Sleep, at my house, alone.."
(the man was playing guitar at the room)

2nd Scene
The girl:
(while having lunch) "Honey, what are you doing, and who are you with now?"
The man:
"Sleep, at my house, alone.."
(the man was fixing the bike in the garage, manly activity)

3rd Scene
The girl:
(on the beach, and sounded furious) "Honey, don’t you miss me? Why don’t you call me?"
The man:
(the man was playing the video game), "Sleep, at my house, alone.."

4rd Scene
The girl looked so furious, and she went to the apartment of his guy, knocked hard the door, looked at the Cockatoo near the door saying, "Sleep, at my house, alone.."
And the guy opened the door with the face of 'Caught in the act-style', and the girl just silent while throwing her angry face.. and then appeared the letter on the TV, "Do you have any possessive girl?"

Maybe.. the right question is, "Did you ever have any possessive girl?"
Yeah, that’s meeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;P

Since I have had a comfortable situation with my previous girl (around 6-7 years of our relationship), who could be driven by me (I'm a bad guy.. he..he..), I have been shocked with the two next girls that I had after that. My previous girl didn’t dare to demand nor ask me to phone her or see her often. Enough just by SMS.. not more than 10-15 times a day, and seeing her just once a week, every Friday night, so I could spent my entire weekend by myself.. OK, you could say that it was wrong and very stupid thing to do.. it was my dumb perhaps, but I’m kind of enjoy it well (I'm bad again.. he..he..)..

The circumstance has forced me to leave her (long story).. and I had to find another girl..

The 1st another girl:

My friend has introduced me with her. She was nice (the 1st impression), and rather pretty. Wearing veil (v), rather plump, looked smart. Even that it was not the kind of girl that I dreamt about..
I think I have to tell you my own reason, because a lot of people said that, "Hey, don't wait to long to end your bachelor status, nobody's perfect, please, you will never get anything you want.."
So, when the time brought someone who was 50% closely to my will (later on I thought, I have to increase the level of tolerance until 70-80%.. he..he.. ABSOLUTELY!), I thought, that was the time for me to accept it without any hesitation..
I still want to try to have a relationship with her.. I thought, perhaps God has shown me the way..
To eliminate 'the bad sounding and gossiping' from other people (especially in my 'f***ing' office and 'f***ing' big family.. he..he..),
To make my parents happy (in a wide terms, my oh my..)..
To end my loneliness..

Yeah.. you could tell me that, I’ve been eaten by my own wish.. it was a kind of boomerang. I was afraid of being lonely, and then even that I was not sure 100% about this girl to be my pair, I forced myself to be with her. And, it was really kind of rather miserable for me. Let’s point it out:

1st:
She really likes to phone and hates SMS! She said that SMS could be emotionless. She likes voices. Yeah, well, I didn’t mind at the 1st time. But when the call has been touched my ear for about twice a day at least (could be more, of course, and always).. and each call at least spent 15 minutes at the 1st (and 2nd, and 3rd.. and so on) one, and the last one spent about 1 hour (and I really couldn’t reject it nor end it, it was hard, she forced me, and I really didn’t have any stand position to throw it back), I started to be VERY-VERY FURIOUS! I really had to skip so many other things to do since I have to accept her calls.. at car, at bookstore, at supermarket, at office, and each calls tended to be 15 – 60 minutes! ARRRGGGGHHH!!!! And, by so many calls, I felt the increasing of possibility from me to say something wrong to her, even I didn’t mean to..

2nd:
She really wanted to have me in her way. For example, she has ever said to me that she didn’t like the kind of metro sexual guy. Hey, I don’t feel that I’m one of them, but she accused me to. And when she remembered that I could play piano, she asked, "Why do you play piano? Why not guitar? I thought that it was common for a man to play guitar but not a piano." I was shocked. I defended myself, "Hey, a lot of great pianists are men! Beethoven, Mozart, Chopin, Liszt!" You know what she said? "Are they normal? Are they married?" I was double shocked! Did she accuse me to be abnormal?! She really wanted to create ‘another version of soul’ in my body! Did she like me as the way I am? Or she just wanted to catch me 1st and then ‘revised’ me later? What am I? Some kind of BOOKS?!!

3rd:
She demanded that I have to.. I repeat.. HAVE TO.. put her in my mind always, wherever and whenever I go. When I was in Bandung, I just dated her for 2 weeks. I always sent SMS to her everyday, but she felt it wasn’t enough. Instead of phoning me (at the time I haven’t got CDMA, which I could tell to be big problem for me considering her madness of phoning in a scale of hourly everday.. noted.. HOURLY EVERYDAY! He..he..), she just sent SMS, "I have to be ALONE for A WHILE!" As a guy who was panic to be left by a girl, I called her via my GSM celular from Bandung, even I was so tired, wanted to sleep, and spent so much money to call her. And, of course, something like that repeated again.. and again.. until.. I broke up with her..

I really couldn’t define well about ‘possessive girl’, but by looking at the advertising regarding to that matter, and remembering my case with v-girl, maybe we could say that she was the one like that. I couldn’t stand being under her position always (you know what I mean), understood her always more than she understood me, forced her willingness, and always tried to trig my dignity with her statement such as, "Should you not want to follow me, it would be better for us to break up.."

First, I could tolerate..
Second, I could tolerate..
Third, hhhhgggghhhhh.. I could tolerate it as well (be patient guy, be patient..)

Fourth?

JUST GO TO HELL WITH THAT!

;P

PS: It’s not that she’s not the right person for me, but perhaps, I’m not the right guy for her..