IT’S ALL ABOUT CHEMISTRY..

Weekend is a good thing to consume.. INFOTAINMENT! Yes! In weekdays you have already filled with those numbers and points that appeared in your audit working paper, and on weekend, it is your turn to audit the life of so many celebrities that appeared in papers or TV..

The news from the infotainment that interested me so much is about the actresses who are still being single, although they are already above the age of 40. And then, the red alert came to the interviewer with caps lock, bold and underlined, “What kind of a man that you are all looking for?”

Their answers averagely could be summarized into one point,
“I’m looking for a man that has a same chemistry like me..”

What is the chemistry then?

As far as I know, chemistry is the thing that really frightened me during High School. It was my nightmare until EBTANAS (they have been transformed into UAN nowadays). And of course, it was the thing that made me stood in the difficult position in front of my parents, since I got the ‘unpleasant’ grade of that subject in my EBTANAS.

I could conclude that chemistry is a very difficult subject then..

As for the actress that I’m pointing above, I’m sure that chemistry is a very difficult subject, like chemistry in EBTANAS for me (please, don't start to get confused.. he..he..). If it was the easy subject, I’m sure that they already getting married and no need to look for the man who has the same chemistry like them..

;P

Is it important? I mean, chemistry?

In my religion, we have been taught that we have to pick our spouse (or legal lover.. he..he..) based on our feeling of attractiveness. At least, you have to attract to him or her at the first time, then you could follow up that feeling by the next step.. until getting married. We were not suggested marrying someone if we didn’t have any feeling of attractiveness.. and it involved both party.. not just one.. to be fair..

I believe that attractiveness is the same thing as chemistry that have been mentioned by those actresses. But, to tell you the truth, it is very hard to understand about the concept of such chemistry.. even harder than understanding about consolidated financial report in advanced accounting..

;P

Some of my friends told me that ‘chemistry’ is important, but not ‘that’ important (I feel that they were trying to make me crazy for thinking about their answer). They (who averagely have been married, and left me with the all miserable for being single.. he..he..) think that once you got married, that chemistry was gone, and it just left us about tolerance and responsibility..

They told me, if you don’t like about something unpleasant in the marriage that you had, and you feel very burdened with it, it means that your chemistry is declined, or maybe gone. But, could it be enough reason for you to end your marriage?

I don’t think so..

All you have to do is giving your tolerance and responsibility to bring your marriage happily ever after.. though that ‘divorce’ could still be used as en emergency exit, but we are suggested to avoid that as much as we could..

Unless if you're celebrities and wanna make a nice head line in infotainment, of course..

Still, then, is it important for us to consider about chemistry in entrying or starting the marriage life?

The answer is.. it is still confusing like the subject of chemistry in UAN/EBTANAS..